Bachelorette Party Itinerary: 48 Hours of Sonoma Food, Wine & Wellness
The ultimate Wine Country bachelorette party that balances champagne toasts with sunrise hikes—and plenty of unforgettable moments in between.
Gone are the days of generic bachelorette party activities. Today's bride tribes are seeking something more elevated, more authentic, more them. If you're planning a Sonoma bachelorette party, you're already on the right track—but let us take you beyond the basic tasting room circuit into an immersive Sonoma food and wine experience that will have your group talking about this weekend for years to come.
We've crafted the perfect 48-hour itinerary that honors both the celebration and the wellness-minded modern woman. Think private chef dinner parties at your vacation rental, morning yoga sessions, hidden gem wineries, and the kind of authentic Wine Country moments you simply can't find anywhere else.
Before You Arrive: Setting the Stage
Book Your Home Base
Choose a stunning vacation rental with an open kitchen, outdoor dining space, and room for your whole crew. Pro tip: Look for properties in Sonoma, Glen Ellen, or Kenwood for easy access to everything on this itinerary. We particularly love Vinifera Homes, Beautiful Places, and Wolf and Horseshoe.
Pre-Arrange the Magic
Contact Valley of the Moon Party Concierge and ask for Kristi Cuff to transform your rental into a bachelorette wonderland. We're talking personalized banners, balloon installations in sophisticated blush and champagne tones, elegant table settings, and those Instagram-worthy touches that make the bride feel like absolute royalty. Kristi's local expertise means she knows exactly how to create Wine Country-chic decor that feels special without being over-the-top.
Secure Your Reservations
Book West Wine Tours for Saturday wine country adventures in vintage VW buses
Reserve your spot for all sorts of yoga and pilates classes at Sonoma Yoga
Lock in your private chef dinner party with Goodness Gracious (because this is the crown jewel of your weekend)
Friday: Arrival & Authentic Sonoma Vibes
9:00 AM - The Porch at MacArthur Place
Here's your first insider secret: The Porch at the beautiful MacArthur Place. Order their famous Chaga-chino—a wellness-forward twist on a cappuccino made with chaga mushroom that's both energizing and grounding. It's the perfect fuel for your afternoon adventure, and the charming setting makes for great group photos.
10:00 AM - Sonoma Plaza Farmers Market
Start your bachelorette party the way locals do—at the Friday morning Farmers Market on Sonoma Plaza. This isn't just shopping; it's a full sensory immersion into Wine Country life. Grab farm-fresh pastries from Baker and Cook, seasonal fruit from Oak Hill Farm, and breakfast as you wander through stalls overflowing with heirloom tomatoes, artisan cheeses, and hand-cut flowers.
Live music fills the air while you browse handmade jewelry and small-batch olive oils. Pick up some provisions for your rental—perhaps a jar of local honey or a bunch of dahlias for the dining table. The energy here is pure Sonoma: friendly, unhurried, and completely authentic.
11:00 AM - Sonoma Plaza Shopping
The Plaza is California's largest town square, and it's lined with charming boutiques perfect for finding bride tribe gifts or that special something for the bride. Duck into wine accessory shops, browse locally made goods, and soak up the historic ambiance of this walkable downtown. We love The Loop, Perle, and Chateau Sonoma.
2:00 PM - Jack London State Park Hike
Balance out the weekend's indulgence with a gorgeous hike through Jack London State Park in Glen Ellen. The trails range from easy to moderate, with stunning views of Sonoma Valley, ancient oak groves, and the ruins of Jack London's Wolf House—a hauntingly beautiful stone structure that adds a touch of history to your nature fix.
The beauty trail is perfect for groups of mixed fitness levels, offering that Wine Country scenery without requiring serious mountaineering skills. Plus, nothing makes champagne taste better than earning it with a little exercise first.
5:00 PM - Settle Into Your Decorated Rental
Return to find your vacation rental completely transformed by Valley of the Moon Party. Imagine walking in to find personalized welcome cocktails setup, the bride's favorite photos displayed, and every corner styled for maximum celebration. This is the moment your bachelorette party shifts from "fun girls' trip" to "absolutely unforgettable experience."
6:30 PM - The Chef's Tasting Menu Dinner Party
And now, the pièce de résistance: your private chef dinner party with Goodness Gracious.
While you and the bride tribe relax with local wine, a Michelin-trained chef transforms your rental's kitchen into a fine dining destination. Over the next few hours, you'll experience a multi-course feast showcasing seasonal Sonoma ingredients—think butter lettuce salad with Point Reyes blue cheese, pan-seared California halibut, and a chocolate olive oil cake that'll ruin you for all other desserts.
This isn't just dinner; it's an intimate Sonoma food and wine experience that lets you actually enjoy your own party. No coordinating restaurant reservations for 10 people. No worrying about dietary restrictions getting lost in translation. No splitting checks or navigating traffic after wine.
Just you, your favorite people, custom-printed menus, seasonal flower arrangements, and a completely stress-free evening where the bride feels like the center of the universe. Our dedicated service staff ensures glasses stay full and conversation flows freely, while you create those long-table, candlelit memories that make Wine Country bachelorette parties legendary.
9:30 PM - Nightcaps & Stories
End the evening on the patio with nightcaps, sharing stories about how you met the bride, and soaking in that magical Wine Country night air.
Saturday: Wine, Wellness & More Wine
9:00 AM - Yoga at Sonoma Yoga
Start your day centered and energized with a class at Sonoma Yoga. Choose from vinyasa, yin, or restorative yoga—they offer options for all levels. There's something particularly special about yoga in Wine Country; maybe it's the energy of the land, or maybe it's just easier to be present when you're on vacation with your best friends.
After class, you'll feel stretched, centered, and ready for a day of wine tasting without any guilt.
11:00 AM - West Wine Tours Begins
Your private driver from West Wine Tours arrives at your rental. Here's why this is essential for any bachelorette party in Wine Country: everyone can actually enjoy the wine. No designated driver drawing the short straw, no debating who's sober enough to drive. Just pure, worry-free tasting.
West Wine Tours specializes in creating customized experiences, and they know all the hidden gems beyond the crowded tourist spots. Pro tip: Let them know it's a bachelorette party and they'll often add special touches like decorating the van or coordinating with wineries for VIP treatment.
12:00 PM - Hamilton Family Wines
First stop: Hamilton Family Wines in Sebastopol. This family-owned winery is known for their exceptional sparkling wines—perfect for toasting the bride throughout the afternoon.
The tasting room has an elegant yet relaxed vibe (very Sonoma), and the property includes beautiful picnic grounds if you want to linger. Ask for their blanc de blancs; it's liquid celebration in a glass. Bonus: They often have live music on weekends, adding to the festive atmosphere.
2:00 PM - Afternoon Tasting Continues
West Wine Tours will guide you through 2-3 more carefully selected wineries based on your group's preferences. Whether you're Pinot Noir devotees, Chardonnay lovers, or want to explore some natural wines, your driver will curate the perfect afternoon.
Between tastings, enjoy the scenery, snap photos in the vineyards, and savor these moments of connection with your bride tribe.
6:00 PM - Return & Refresh
Back at the rental, everyone takes time to shower, change, and get ready for your final evening.
7:30 PM - Dinner at Songbird Parlour
For your second night, venture out to experience one of Sonoma's most beloved restaurants. Songbird Parlour brings vibrant, neighborhood energy to the local dining scene with California-inspired cuisine that celebrates seasonal ingredients in creative, unexpected ways.
The atmosphere strikes the perfect balance—elevated but never stuffy, buzzing with energy but intimate enough for conversation. Reserve a large table, order family-style small plates designed for sharing, and enjoy a hyper-boutique wine list.
Sunday: Slow Morning & Fond Farewells
9:00 AM - Lazy Brunch
No rush this morning. Make coffee (or more Chaga-chinos if you picked some up), enjoy leftovers from last night's chef-prepared feast, and sit around in pajamas reliving the weekend's best moments.
11:00 AM - Checkout & Departures
As you pack up and say goodbye to your Wine Country sanctuary, you'll already be planning the next reunion. Because this isn't just a bachelorette party—it's the kind of weekend that sets the bar for all future celebrations.
Why This Itinerary Works for the Modern Bachelorette Party
It Balances Indulgence with Wellness
Hiking, yoga, and chaga mushroom drinks balance out the wine and private chef meals—so no one feels like they completely fell off the wagon for 48 hours.
It's Authentically Sonoma
From the Friday farmers market to the locally-owned businesses, this itinerary showcases real Wine Country life, not just the tourist version.
It Prioritizes Connection
The private chef dinner parties keep your group together instead of scattered across restaurant tables. These intimate moments around a beautifully set table are where the magic happens—deeper conversations, heartfelt toasts, and belly laughs that you'll remember forever.
It's Completely Stress-Free
With transportation arranged, meals handled by professionals, and your rental pre-decorated, the bride (and the planner!) can actually relax and be present.
It Creates Instagram Moments (Without Trying Too Hard)
Every element of this itinerary is naturally photogenic—from the balloon installations to the plated chef's courses to the vineyard backdrops. The memories document themselves.
Ready to Plan Your Sonoma Bachelorette Party?
This 48-hour Sonoma food and wine experience proves you can honor the bride, celebrate your friendships, and create meaningful moments—all while enjoying some of the best wine and cuisine in the world.
The secret ingredient? Letting the experts handle the details while you focus on what matters: being fully present with your people in one of California's most beautiful corners.
Ready to book your private chef dinner party experience? Contact Goodness Gracious to start planning the culinary centerpiece of your Wine Country bachelorette celebration. From the Chef's Tasting Menu to Yoga + Brunch and Bubbles, we'll create an unforgettable dinner party that becomes the highlight of your entire weekend.
Because the best bachelorette parties aren't just about celebrating the bride—they're about celebrating the incredible women who show up for each other, again and again. Welcome to Wine Country. Welcome to your perfect moment. Welcome home.